We have all seen the adorable videos of babies sleeping on dogs or toddlers hugging puppies. While cute, these interactions can be dangerous if the dog is feeling stressed. A safe introduction sets the tone for a lifelong friendship built on mutual respect, not just tolerance.
1. The 'No Touch' First Meeting
When introducing a new dog to a child, keep the energy low. Do not let the child run up to the dog. Instead, have the child sit quietly with a parent. Let the dog sniff the child on their own terms. If the dog chooses to walk away, let them. This teaches the dog that the child is not a threat to their personal space.
2. Teach the 'One Hand' Rule
Children often want to hug dogs around the neck or pat them vigorously on the head. To a dog, this can feel dominating or scary. Teach your child to pet with one open hand on the dog's back or chest. Hugging should be discouraged until the dog is completely trusted and comfortable.
3. Understand Dog Body Language
A wagging tail doesn't always mean happy. A slow, stiff wag can indicate tension. Watch for 'whale eye' (seeing the whites of the dog's eyes), lip licking, or yawning. These are subtle signs that the dog is stressed and needs a break from the child immediately.
4. The Golden Rule: Active Supervision
Active supervision means you are within arm's reach and paying attention. If you need to leave the room for even a minute, the dog should go into a crate or behind a baby gate. Accidents happen in split seconds, usually when an adult assumes 'they'll be fine for a moment.'
By establishing boundaries early, you protect your child from bites and your dog from fear. A dog that feels safe around children will eventually become their greatest protector and playmate.
